buying fur

[Miss Minx]

Maria i think its just people getting frustrated as it does seem that Dani asks for help and advice a lot and then dismisses it when people offer advice she doesnt want to hear. I think everyone has been very patient with her (probably not me as much as some others as im a snappy cow) but it gets to a point where it starts to become annoying. Perhaps its what she needs to change the way she aproaches things for the better and perhaps help herself as im sure most people on here just want to see her sort herself out and stop the constant negatibvity

[Lisa]

Maybe if Dani stopped being so negative on every postr folk would poss ease up, but this lady needs a good shaking & Dani im sorry but im only saying what most are thinking.

 

You're a good kid but you seem to be lacking the motivation & ooomph to get up & go love...

 

We all seriously are only trying to advise you, ok I think it's quite clear now you do not need/want it & know better than all of us put together, so I am gonna say now everyone, inc me please lets get along & any nagativity from Dani or whoever, lets ignore eh & just get on with the site for fun please

[Lisa]

Maria knows full well Dani is annoying at times

[Guest]

Fuck aye

[Lisa]

if I fuck your aye you'll go blind

[Miss Minx]

Exactly what ive just said in an FAO post im going to ignore any negative comments and let her get on with it as our advice is obviously not needed so therefore wont be given anymore

 

 

[Guest]

first of all this post was asking cos i know few ppl may have friends that do the same so i asked if anyone knew

i discarded what i knew was right but was told i was wrong from dawn wen i live here and still getting the debden thing which i had already said and i eould have apolagised if i had been wrong but i still got bitched at

i was looking around online but was asking for someone if they knew to give me better ones as its my first time doing summat like this

 

 

i do live in loughton and debden is loughton sort of its really confusing round here

 

but where is this  aleged market then???

 

cos i can assure u loughton has no place for one wen they have the farmers market they have to close the road so id like to no where u got this info from???

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And you wonder why people are getting annoyed at you?

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Why ? I don't see anything wrong with her post. Stop ganging up on her ..

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thanx

 

 

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i do live in loughton and debden is loughton sort of its really confusing round here

 

but where is this  aleged market then???

 

cos i can assure u loughton has no place for one wen they have the farmers market they have to close the road so id like to no where u got this info from???

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And you wonder why people are getting annoyed at you?

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Why ? I don't see anything wrong with her post. Stop ganging up on her ..

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It is not so much ganging up Maria, it is bloody annoying when you try to help & advise someone when they come on & continuously moan or whinge ref their life, where they live, their lack of work, college etc etc market stall yada yada & they are so damn negative & at time sodding rude, sorry..

 

I like Dani alot away from this website but of late, jesus wept & flooded the earth she has become a pain, sorry Dani but please for the love of god, help yourself & take some advise or stop the fooking whinging please :blahblah

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but this time lisa i did fuck all wrong and lately i have been more positive but if someone puts a post up and i reply and say even a slight negative thing be it from my past or whatever im jumped on from all angles yer few weeks ago everything seemed like it was goin wrong but i changed that round and still u all pick out any negative things but wen i have said about job center or where ive tried forward planning no one actually listens to any of that and jus want to pick on any negative things cos u all assume that is what i am and it is really hard to be positive wen ur getting every negative thing pushed in ur face and yer it is really upsetting too that i know wen to apologise and not be bitchy and offer constructional advise of what i know but when every post is having every little thing taken out and shoved back at me making me feel really tiny on here its no wonder i bite cos im upset and thats me i argue cos its what im like

 

[Lisa]

Dani, listen I have told you how I feel in regards to certain post by you& yes maybe I have been harsh as have opthers but I have explained why etc.

 

If you feel you are being picked on on or up on in any thread pm me or any of the other mods with your issue & point me to the posts in question as I do miss some of them as does Liam etc & we will look into it for you & if need be ask whoever to pipe down or I will beat them ok

 

As I say just ignore or let us know ok, don't bite

[Guest]

yer i know cheers

and please stop picking out all my negative things cos this wasnt one of them and nor as any of the others lately its jus me bein me

[Lisa]

it is really hard to be positive wen ur getting every negative thing pushed in ur face

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This comment here Dani is where im having trouble, as Is ay I may have missed stuff but in all honesty it is infact from where I am sitting, the other way around.

 

We have been trying to give you positive advise on work ideas, college course ideas, posted links etc & it has been you throwing negative replies back at us, there is always one reason or another why you can not do it yada yada & this is why folk are now getting the arseache with you in all fairness.

[Guest]

lisa that was weeks ago i am on new deal, looked into training applied for 3 jobs one im defo hopeful about working in marks and spencers simply foods as it is a new built place opening in august so they need full staff and i have till experience and have been positive about why im working to get the money to buy equiptment to train at college and get better things for my flat and shay

now that is how i have been past few weeks that is positive

[fifedjdomo]

markies tills is well easy as well

just gotta scan it n move on and its just a couple buttons next to the screen and touch screen for searchin carrots or sumthin

[Lisa]

Oh Dani dear god, please you're getting me off on one now, weeks ago or not it is how it has been & as I say rather than post to me saying what you did, why not take on board what has been said & post back a reply like cool, yeh lets get on as usual etc

 

I amleaving this thread now as I have made my feelings clear to you as a friend & as a member of this board, I like you alot Dani, we are all just trying to help which is what you intuially asked for, so please if you're not really interested in folks ideas etc, don't ask.

[fifedjdomo]

why dont u lock it?

lol

this aint got nothin to do with buying fur!

[Lisa]

Good point OFF TOPIC!!!

 

 

You really shopuldnt buy fur cos it was once a cute cuddly animal