knowing when youve found the right person

[Lisa]

its a pulsating feeling in the crutch area, I think!!

[Louise]

thats lust......i have that with every bloke iv met

[Lisa]

exactly & is easly mistaken for love!!

[Louise]

isnt it just........and thats why i have been hurt so many times

 

iv made the mistake of falling for someone i didnt know aswell.........BIG mistake, hopefully iv found mr right now, although its took me 6 months to realise my TRUE feelings and learn to trust him.

 

spose we live and learn, how well do we actually know someone we are with?

[Lisa]

yep Lou & it is a hard lesson to learn, because although we know it deep down, we still fall for it!! Oops sorry Jilly, didnt mean to dampen your moment!!

[Maria]

[Louise]

QUOTE (miss_diddy @ Mar 2 2004, 13:33)

yep Lou & it is a hard lesson to learn, because although we know it deep down, we still fall for it!! Oops sorry Jilly, didnt mean to dampen your moment!!

oooo dear

 

er, yeah, just ignore us........i think its the mother thing coming out on us

[Tarzan]

No one deserves it more than you jilly. You're such a beautiful person, you deserve all the happiness in the world. But that boy better not have you all to himself, we wont to play with you too.

 

[paula]

its a great feeling, im happy for u too jilly xx

[Lisa]

QUOTE (Tarzan @ Mar 2 2004, 14:55)

No one deserves it more than you jilly. You're such a beautiful person, you deserve all the happiness in the world. But that boy better not have you all to himself, we wont to play with you too.

you just want in her knickers, you!!

[paula]

i wonder if u find it twice over. i reckon not

[Louise]

im sure you do paula, there will always be the right person out there for us all, but it dont mean that someone else cant be just as good as the first one we meet

[Lisa]

well surely if you have already found it, then no need to question, as you should be together & happy?????????????????

[Louise]

understandably, but sometime things beyond our control can end a relationship

[mistress_hoover]

QUOTE (kitty @ Mar 2 2004, 12:12)

well done jilly! im, happy for u hon,does he live near to u? so how do u 'know' then? does it hit u suddenly? i felt my 2 serious relationships were 'the one' when with em,how wrong was i,haha. so what feelings do u get?

i know that this is love (and i know alot of people will be thinking..yeah whatever) but i spent 2 years with my ex..and even tho i bitch about him we had such a lovely time together (when i look at the good points) and i thought i was in love with him, we planned a future together and i would have settled down with him.

 

but this time i cant explain it...all of last week i was excited for seeing him and it was pure lust, i knew there was something different tho..the way he spoke to me..the conversations we had (being on the phone for hours) but on Sunday i was feeling so nervous (i was quiet all the way to brum in the car...never spoke a word!) and he sent me a text saying he was on his way in. When he came in he put his arms round me and stared into my eyes..ive never felt so amazed by a person before...the cuddle he gave me was so 'right' and for once i felt perfect. Each moment we spent with each other i found more and more things attractive about him and his personality was just amazing. Ive never been so amazed by a person before....i was completley overwhelmed by him

 

I kept thinking through the night is this the pills that im on or is this feeling here to stay...id look over at him and he'd give me a smile that made me melt. I feel more loved up now than what i did on sunday and i think that each day it will grow....

 

Then at the afterparty we just sat cuddled for hours, just holding each other...everything about him amazed me and i felt so complete. The amazing thing is he feels exactly the same about me and we have SO much in common (even down to silly things like hating marmite ).

 

Theres no worrying about 'what if he doesnt like me' or getting paraniod about him chatting to other girls as i know that hes with me (i always get para in relationships) and i honestly think ive met my match.

 

Sorry for babbling on - but u did ask how i 'know' and i know for a fact that it isint lust...

 

*passes sick bucket*

 

hope you guys all find someone as special as ben

 

 

p.s. i hope i havent broken too many hearts..i know glazby and phil reynolds were gutted but ben has defo got THE perfect face to sit on (had to put a bit sauce in there!)x