"why is this called "clubtheworld" discussion vanished

[CreamyC]

[censored] ME!

 

PUT THIS POST TO BED FOR [censored] SAKE!

 

Alisdair, I see you registered on 4clubbers site, have you aksed them why they named it 4clubbers??

 

Gwaaaaan, I dare ya!

[TidyTraxGrant]

I doubt everyone on there wants to here his philosophy on club-life .

Only fall asleep .

[alasdairm]

thanks for all your comments everybody.

 

i'm saddened that you're not interested in discussing these issues in an open-minded way.

 

deleting messages you don't like and lying about it doesn't seem to me to be in-line with your stated aim but it's your board, right?

 

have a great weekend

 

alasdair

[CreamyC]

quote:

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Originally posted by alasdairm:

 

thanks for all your comments everybody.

 

i'm saddened that you're not interested in discussing these issues in an open-minded way.

 

deleting messages you don't like and lying about it doesn't seem to me to be in-line with your stated aim but it's your board, right?

 

have a great weekend

 

alasdair

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You seem to be a patronising mate! If you want to join up with us and give us some positive feedback then please do but I think we have covered your question so please stop going over the same [censored]!

 

Many thanks!

[LibbyVanDyke]

ally he stinks of poo

ally fell down the loo

ally is only twooo

ally has ginger puuuuuu(bes)

 

ok my rhyming skills arent good.

[TidyTraxGrant]

quote:

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Originally posted by alasdairm:

thanks for all your comments everybody.

 

i'm saddened that you're not interested in discussing these issues in an open-minded way.

 

deleting messages you don't like and lying about it doesn't seem to me to be in-line with your stated aim but it's your board, right?

 

have a great weekend

 

alasdair

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'Alice' not being funny mate, i dont think anyone wants to discuss the issues with you for two reasons :

 

1) There are no issues to discuss

2) Its a club site and so far in everyones eyes

all you've done is moan, to put it bluntly, the rest of us are here to av a fcukin good laugh and keep it real so i don't think so !

 

Cheers

 

 

[ 31 May 2002, 17:11: Message edited by: DuMonde Raver ]

[TidyTraxGrant]

 

 

[ 31 May 2002, 17:09: Message edited by: DuMonde Raver ]

[James]

OK OK OK OK OK - I ADMIT IT - I handled this incorrectly - but I AM A LITTLE STRESSED RIGHT NOW AND I WANTED PEOPLE TO SEE THAT I AM ONLY HUMAN.

 

I deleted the message because I didnt want people to see my anger as I want this board full of love & happiness.

 

I CANT BE HELD RESPONSIBLE FOR MY ACTIONS RIGHT NOW.

 

I AM VERY VERY VERY SORRY OK !

 

James

[James]

AS SAID ON THE ORIGINAL POST...

 

If anyone has a problem with me or my pet chinchilla please EMAIL ME and I will talk to you DIRECTLY - the other members are getting f*cked off with this - in fact 2 left today (my fault obviously).

 

Perhaps I shouldn't post anymore ??!

 

James

[Dinger]

Who's gone, and why???

[Beckie in La La Land]

LOL!!! well this actually brought tears to beckie la la's eyes!! i have never ever seen such a hillarious post!! who ever you are, you are soooo strange that its funny, soooo unreasonable that i was grinning from ear to ear!! ha ha ha!! ooohhh!! i cant breathe!! james sweetie you are a [censored] star, thinks tossers like mr barbazzar or whatever he calls himself need to realise how funny they are!! have you ever done stand up? i mean im sure your local ymca/social club/oap home would love you to do a stint cos i nearly weed!!!

 

****beckie may have to invest in a box of nappies if he writes anymore, she just cannot controle herself***

[Freano]

James you did what you had too. Hopefully Alasdairm from wherever in America has realised that his snidey nit-picking questions are not welcome. Oh dear, talk baout your cat amongst the pigeons creating a storm !!

[James]

wasn't gonna carry this on but I want Beckie to go buy some nappies! hehe

 

READ FROM BOTTOM UP (cant be arsed to re-order)

 

----- Original Message -----

From: "J Ellyfish"

To:

 

Hi James

 

Thanks for your reply - swift and honest. I'm really

sorry to hear of your troubles. Be true to yourself

and things will work out.

 

I don't want to drag this out but I thin maybee I can

provide helpful input as an 'outside' observer.

 

>From where I'm standing, this guy asked a few

questions (politely) and got a shower of negative

responses. Any negativity was introduced by regulars

on the board. It's just a bit frustrating to see

people talk about friends and love, etc. and then turn

on a newcomer a bit nasty.

 

But, you've had enough of this and so have I. I hope

you have a great weekend and you dance your ass off

8-)

 

JF

 

--- "James (ClubTheWorld)"

wrote:

 

I too felt this and that I shouldn't turn away people but have realised I

really am only after certain types of people on the site and I dont intend

on making money - just 100% like-minded friends.

 

His approach was something which would not have even entered my head and

after answering honestly and trying to get my point across he just went on

and on and on and on trying to be clever - I have no time for people like

this - in fact we sacked a couple of contractors with attitudes like this

the other day at work.

 

If he doesnt like it he can go elsewhere I am not forcing people to join the

forum - in fact I've purposefully forced on registration to view them in the

first place.

 

I know this might be the wrong attitiude to take but I'm not a company with

loads of cash behind it and after making loads of cash.

 

Thanks for your email I do appreciate it and you ARE correct - I have just

moved house and a little stressed, although thats no excuse - but I am only

human. The site has to be 100% full of love and positive things - I got

divorced in november last year and I dont need negative people on board.

 

Thanks again anyway - I'm sure I'll settle down - I am a bit volatile at the

moment!

 

James

 

----- Original Message -----

From: "J Ellyfish"

To:

Sent: Friday, May 31, 2002 5:23 PM

Subject: Re: why is this called "clubtheworld"

 

> Hello James

>

> I was reading the forums on your site (it's a great

> site by the way) for a while now and I seen this

> message.

>

> I reckon he could have asked his questions a bit

> diferently but I was really amazed by the response

> from the regulars. I'm sending this message to you

> because I'm really surprised how you handled this.

>

> I think its a bad idea to delete messages you don't

> like - he was only asking questions. Its not like he

> said "your site [censored] sucks" or anything like that.

> PLus you pretended the messages got deleted by

> accident. That's not very nice.

>

> Anyway, I just think it could have been handled

> better. If you have a site, you have to listen to what

> people think (good and bad) and you have to be honest

> with people. If you only want to hear good news and

> you get into lying, whats the point really??

>

> Dont want to be negative but I wanted to tell you what

> I thought. Keep up the brilliant work with the site

> and have a top weekend, mate.

>

> JF

>

[Flakey Dove]

Ok its all probably sorted at last.Good that the last fella came in with an impartial point of view on the matter,and good that our fearless leader could reply and reaffirm a few points of view.

However you have to remember that this site's now only going get bigger,won't be long before we have a 1000 members,and like it or lump it not everyone's gonna agree on matters,[censored],sooner or later someone's gonna come on who really does love garage!

So this is where James, and the rest of us have thier work cut out,trying to strike up a nice balance between accepting points of view we disagree with or just out and out abuse.

Personally I think this is a tasty little site at the moment,but I would hope it would'nt turn in to some online version of 'pravda' or something,but then again we don't wanna be overran by finnincky buffoons.

The answers probably to settle on the middle ground somewhere,and thats the beauty of sites like this and the people who create them,is that they allow lazy arse's like myself to express such views.

Keep the faith and stay happy

[TidyTraxGrant]

Oh for godsake, who the hell is JF, Alasdairs boyfriend ?

 

Why do people stick there nose in so much, its dfcukin unreal, anyone would think this is a site about nuclear waste or summit controversial, not fuckin club chit chat !