confused on the whole girl on girl situation?

[Mitzie Dancer]

Ok so the other week, after going out my and me fella all went back to his and invited some mates round for an after sesh and a coupld of randoms came back, anyhow my fellas mate brought his gilfriend back and she was stunning. She called me over to sit next to her so she could play with me hair, so i sat nxt to her, thinkinn it was quite amusin, anyhow i cud see my fellas face in the corner of me eye and he was rather intrigued lol. She then got me to sit inbetween her legs and she put arms round me and and said 'she liked to get close to girls lol' and yes it looked quite intimate and for sum reason my fela looked slightly uncomfortable. Later on he was tslkin about it a fair bit and it became obvious he werent that comfortable, so i dont understand u men go on about how u love i when girls get close and touch each other up etc lol but why is it that when thingslike that happen esp if its ur girlfriend,ur not soo keen lol? Its just confused me thats all

[CreamyC]

Can answer this but if it ever happens please let me know !

[Blink]

It is simple, when you are with someone, you want to be with them alone, you get jealous of them being with anyone else, male or female.

 

I would love a no-strings attached threesome, but I would never want to share my girlfriend with anyone, male or female.

 

Does it make any difference if they are doing it with a man or a woman? They still aren't doing it with you.

[colin66]

hmmmm ....

 

insecurity + possessiveness = jealousy

 

be happy with yourself

 

 

[Blink]

True, but would you be happy seeing your partner with someone else?

 

[colin66]

well it would depend but I guess not Blink.

 

Although I don't understand how someone could get jealous of a girl being with another girl ... would turn me on big time - as long as I can watch mind

[Blink]

Personally I don't see the difference between them being with another girl and another man, I am into monogamy myself.

 

but different strokes for different folks, and all that.

 

Like I said, being in a 3-some must be every man's fantasy, just not with someone I would want to be with seriously

[sentialSteve]

Its an insecurity thing. My last 5 girlfriends have all been bi and i can honestly say its not bothered me at all (especially the one that liked me joining in ).

Never had a problem with any of them going with girls as long as they were honest with me (and gave details!!)

Don't really mind gf's flirting with guys either, suppose its a trust thing as well, but if they're going/wanting to leave then they will, if its meant to be.......etc

Think this comes with age, was never like it in my early twenties!

[AlanJames]

Simple, a girl being with another girl is a none threatening turn on.

 

Very sexy, But none the less, i would hate to have a bi girl friend, would make me paranoid.

 

 

 

 

[Claire DC]

Right, i have a classic example of this....

 

A week on Friday ago, i was at a mates house and we decided to stay in and have a drink which ended up in me and his housemate +(female) gettin really pissed (1 and half bottles of vodka and 10 carlings or so between us) halfway thru the night we ended up snoggin in front of him (this girl has a bf who wasnt in) but it was just a silly thing at first but as the night went on things got shall we say a lil more heated (tho we were completely clothed twas just a bit of fumbling shall we say) my mate got pissed off cos he wasnt gettin any and went to bed and then then kept sendin txts sayin he was a wanker and we hated him etc, then he'd come downstairs again and end up back in bed....

 

We then went to their next door neighbours and were gettin to it again there, my mate again tried to join in i told him no and he went off to bed again.... this girls bf then came in and i cant be sure but he may have caught the end of our kiss.... even if he hadnt we were still sat v.close and holding hands etc so i think was obvious (in our drunken state we didnt think about it lol) and soon enough he went to bed too (bit of a bed theme goin on here) we carried on for a bit then went back to her house where everyone was in bed and things were progressin shall we say........until my mate walked into the room when we stopped and she went to bed.... now ok we werent lettin my mate join in but he could still watch us snoggin etc and as for her bf then he could have joined in... with her of course (not me) but he went off to bed unimpressed.... wheres the logic in that?

 

I think he knew what he was gonna come back to anyway cos she'd been sendin him txts all night sayin i was gonna be in his bedspace etc (lol) But i dont get it, if he felt threatened fair enough but i think its clear neither of us were about to start up a r'ship as none of us would do that, it was purely about the sex basically

 

Men = Never Fuckin Happy

[CreamyC]

Jesus, what an essay that was .......

 

I dont know how anyone could be jealous with a girl on girl situation! Its a different ball game than being with another bloke!

 

Someone find me a Bi !

[Nick G]

Someone find me a Bi !

 

I can highly recommend my ex, Evie

[LittleMissLoud]

oooh claire i know who ur talking about u naughty girlie!!!

[Claire DC]

hehehe u do indeed

 

heheheh

[Blink]

I dont know how anyone could be jealous with a girl on girl situation! Its a different ball game than being with another bloke!

 

Am I the only person on this site who thinks relationships should be monogamous, whether it be man, woman, or animal?

 

Is this actually a swingers site? Maybe we should have a sister site "Swing The World"...run out of reliable swopping partners, fed-up of being left stranded in your rubber on a friday night...come to Swing The World, there is always someone "Up For It" at Swing The World