Sisters..so annoying

[snowqueen]

I have a sister who has 3 girls all under 5 years....basically she gets up everymorning takes them round my nans gets them ready for school instead of her own home..she takes the kids to school while my nan gets the baby dressed..this is a routine everyday...when she comes back from taking the two girls from school....she sits on her arse all day watching tv....while my nan tends to the baby, when she goes to town my nan has the baby....i am not being a jealous person...what annoys me is that i go over to see my nan...but my sister is always there...you cant talk coz she buts in and cannot have a conversation as with her it turns into an arguement...maybe i want to see my nan on her own for once but everytime i go there she is there..

 

So this morning at 9:30am i goes round my nans thinking i will get round there before my sister, as her two girls are away for the night, but guess what she is there and my nan is getting her baby dress.....

 

I AM FUMING

 

do i tell my nan that my sister over stays her welcome. i know that sometimes my sister and her kids do get too much for my nan, but my nan is too kind hearted to say FUCKOFF.

she dont clear up her kids mess before she leaves the house

my nan has to do it all.

 

can someone give me some advice....coz i will stop going round my nans fullstop as it is i dont see her that much and yet she lives opposit me.

 

help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[Louise]

cant give any advice here if your nan wont say anything about it, its her that has to be upfront not you cus your sis will only think your jelous or trying to cause shit if you say anything.

 

my neighbours daughter sounds like your sis, shes round there from 8am till last thing at night (with her kids) just so the grandparents will look after them, they both work shifts but there is always someone there to look after the kids, she doesnt work (in fact she hasnt done a days work since she left school she gets her money by popping out an extra kid every year, by all different dads and living on the social)

 

it annoys me because when i had my kids although my mum and dad wanted to look after the kids and see them often, there time of bringing up kids is over (many years ago) why should they still be doing it when there hitting retirement, they should be enjoying there free time all over again.

 

think your sister needs a quick kick up the arse and reality check, there her kids, she should be looking after them instaed of offloading onto other people!!!

 

[ChrisT]

[rachel]

Maybe your nan enjoys doing it. Maybe she enjoys their company. Maybe she doesn't want to tell your sister to stop going round there.