How do you keep a man?

[tidy_bitch]

Picture this, girl meets boy, boy girl go out, they have a fantastic time!!

 

They arrange another time to go out, boy, girl have, again, a great time. You think result then come the i dont really have time for a relationship talk!

 

Girl understands because of his type Job! Im not goin to say what it is though, but it does involve commitment.

 

This always happens, i mean all the time.

 

Ok, so i do go for certain type of man. You know, messy, spiky hair. Jeans and suit Jacket (gay look )

 

I don't put out, so where am i goin wrong?

[Phil rr]

cook more?

[tidy_bitch]

QUOTE (Phil rr @ Apr 8 2004, 18:27)

cook more?

not funny!!

[Guest nursenancy]

Its not you going wrong its the blokes....... they obviously say that they aint got time really due to the fact that they dont wanna b with u in the long term.

 

if u really and truly fall in luv with someone then ur perceptions change, despite the commitments u have in ur life, u will make sure u find time to have a relationship, as u luv and want to spend time with that person.

 

this bloke, no matter how much u had a good time together, obviously isnt enough for him.

 

move on untill u find the guy who wants to b with u matter wat, and u him

[Phil rr]

and cook for him

Edited April 8, 2004 by Phil rr

[tidy_bitch]

QUOTE (nursenancy @ Apr 8 2004, 18:35)

Its not you going wrong its the blokes....... they obviously say that they aint got time really due to the fact that they dont wanna b with u in the long term. if u really and truly fall in luv with someone then ur perceptions change, despite the commitments u have in ur life, u will make sure u find time to have a relationship, as u luv and want to spend time with that person. this bloke, no matter how much u had a good time together, obviously isnt enough for him. move on untill u find the guy who wants to b with u matter wat, and u him

Yeah that!!

 

However, it happens all the time, everytime! Is it cuz i dont put out? Or somthing?

 

I dunno, maybe i should turn into a lezzy, wait a min? I dont get on with girls that much either!

 

I guess im just fucked!

[EmmaBlu]

QUOTE (Phil rr @ Apr 8 2004, 18:46)

and cook for him

i cook for blokes all the time and before i get any remarks from shane YES I CAN COOK

 

tis true though where do us girlies go wrong????????

[Shaney_R]

You all need a welshman!!!!!!!! thats where ya goin wrong!

 

 

[Lisa]

you say it happens all the time to you Amber, well please dont take this as me being nasty, but have you considered it is something you are doing wrong?? i mean your ok looking etc, so why is this happening all the time???

 

I dont know, maybe ask a friend, if you smell or if your breath is bad, I know thats sounds awful, but could be!! even get them to sniff your flower!! joke!!

[James]

some kind of gimp cage ?

 

[Daredevil Tony]

When your looking for a relationship it doesnt seem to happen and then you just get caught up with all this analysing of whats going wrong and you start beating yourself up over it all.

 

Have fun and keep doing the things that make you happy.

When you learn to love yourself a lot more then you'll find it will all fall into place.

 

Im a believer that there is someone out there for everyone.

Edited April 8, 2004 by Tony

[Ginge]

Why dont you put out?

 

Do you kiss, cuddle and mess around with each other?

 

If thats the case then they probably see you as a tease and believe me, most men would rather go with the easy option and find a girl who puts out.

 

If you dont do the kissy, cuddley thing then I dont know...sorry.

[EmmaBlu]

im the kissy cuddly type, most blokes i go for aint , thats probably where im goin wrong

[Phil rr]

blokes can be a lot more kissy cuddley than lots of girls think i think

Edited April 8, 2004 by Phil rr

[Daredevil Tony]

Im the kiss cuddley type!!

 

Any takers???