How do you keep a man?

[Phil rr]

QUOTE (Tony @ Apr 8 2004, 19:47)

Im the kiss cuddley type!! Any takers???

yeah.

[tidy_bitch]

QUOTE (Lisa @ Apr 8 2004, 19:16)

you say it happens all the time to you Amber, well please dont take this as me being nasty, but have you considered it is something you are doing wrong?? i mean your ok looking etc, so why is this happening all the time??? I dont know, maybe ask a friend, if you smell or if your breath is bad, I know thats sounds awful, but could be!! even get them to sniff your flower!! joke!!

Tis, ok!! I havnt taken it the wrong way at all!!

 

I do like to be affectionate but i dont let them go all the way untill the time is right.

I dont think i want a name for myself!!

 

Shaney, you are the most sweetest guy ever

[EmmaBlu]

QUOTE (Phil rr @ Apr 8 2004, 19:41)

blokes can be a lot more kissy cuddley than lots of girls think i think

where r they then

[Squirrel]

This is where I get all soppy! The only advice I can give is stay in there and don't change!

 

For two years I had the 2 month flings. Goes well, guy gives you lots of attention despite your "keeping it chilled, not rushing or getting involved" attitude so you give in and start to really like them, then they think "aahhh" and stop contacting you. They just want a fuck buddy nothing serious but give you mixed signals in the meantime.

 

Now for the soppy bit...

 

But when I was about to give up, I met Stuart and decided to be honest and up front from the start. Said I've had enough "fun" and had enough "flings" and am now ready for something serious and had had enough of being led along just to be messed around.

 

It seemed to do the trick and I couldn't be happier! I know it sounds corney but when the right one comes along it will be worth all the shit guys in between!

[EmmaBlu]

QUOTE (Tony @ Apr 8 2004, 19:47)

Im the kiss cuddley type!! Any takers???

yeh

[tidy_bitch]

QUOTE (Squirrel @ Apr 8 2004, 20:11)

This is where I get all soppy! The only advice I can give is stay in there and don't change! For two years I had the 2 month flings. Goes well, guy gives you lots of attention despite your "keeping it chilled, not rushing or getting involved" attitude so you give in and start to really like them, then they think "aahhh" and stop contacting you. They just want a fuck buddy nothing serious but give you mixed signals in the meantime. Now for the soppy bit... But when I was about to give up, I met Stuart and decided to be honest and up front from the start. Said I've had enough "fun" and had enough "flings" and am now ready for something serious and had had enough of being led along just to be messed around. It seemed to do the trick and I couldn't be happier! I know it sounds corney but when the right one comes along it will be worth all the shit guys in between!

'wow'

 

That sounds like the best advice ive been given.

 

And yeah, you sound like me, without the boyf that is!!

 

Be upfront, thats the best bet then!!

 

What do the men think of it then?? you know, being upfront?

[Squirrel]

QUOTE (tidy_bitch @ Apr 8 2004, 20:26)

QUOTE (Squirrel @ Apr 8 2004, 20:11) This is where I get all soppy! The only advice I can give is stay in there and don't change! For two years I had the 2 month flings. Goes well, guy gives you lots of attention despite your "keeping it chilled, not rushing or getting involved" attitude so you give in and start to really like them, then they think "aahhh" and stop contacting you. They just want a fuck buddy nothing serious but give you mixed signals in the meantime. Now for the soppy bit... But when I was about to give up, I met Stuart and decided to be honest and up front from the start. Said I've had enough "fun" and had enough "flings" and am now ready for something serious and had had enough of being led along just to be messed around. It seemed to do the trick and I couldn't be happier! I know it sounds corney but when the right one comes along it will be worth all the shit guys in between! 'wow'   That sounds like the best advice ive been given.   And yeah, you sound like me, without the boyf that is!!   Be upfront, thats the best bet then!!   What do the men think of it then?? you know, being upfront? Well it stops you wasting time. You don't have to be full on marriage and kids style, just say you don't want to get messed around and if they aren't in the slightest looking for a potential relationship then they may run but then you haven't wasted time on them. The good ones will hang around.   What you mustn't do is say "is it me?" "am I doing something wrong?" and try to change yourself as then the people you meet wont be meeting the real you.   Good luck!

[Daredevil Tony]

QUOTE (EBO @ Apr 8 2004, 20:12)

QUOTE (Tony @ Apr 8 2004, 19:47) Im the kiss cuddley type!! Any takers???  yeh

[Daredevil Tony]

QUOTE (Phil rr @ Apr 8 2004, 19:48)

QUOTE (Tony @ Apr 8 2004, 19:47) Im the kiss cuddley type!! Any takers???  yeah. poof

[Ginge]

QUOTE (Squirrel @ Apr 8 2004, 20:11)

For two years I had the 2 month flings.:

I dont understand this bit?

 

Do you mean you've had 2x 1 months flings...or...

 

Do you mean you've had 2 years worth of 2 months fling (in other words, 12x 2 month flings back to back)....or...

 

Do you mean you've had several 2 month flings with gaps in between?

 

Of topic I know but I was just wondering.

[Squirrel]

QUOTE (Ginge @ Apr 8 2004, 21:02)

QUOTE (Squirrel @ Apr 8 2004, 20:11) For two years I had the 2 month flings.: I dont understand this bit?   Do you mean you've had 2x 1 months flings...or...   Do you mean you've had 2 years worth of 2 months fling (in other words, 12x 2 month flings back to back)....or...   Do you mean you've had several 2 month flings with gaps in between?   Of topic I know but I was just wondering. Several two month flings with gaps in between over the course of two years!   Does that put your mind at rest?

[colin66]

QUOTE (Tony @ Apr 8 2004, 19:17)

Im a believer that there is someone out there for everyone.

What, even for you Tony?

[ChrisT]

QUOTE (tidy_bitch @ Apr 8 2004, 18:26)

Picture this, girl meets boy, boy girl go out, they have a fantastic time!! They arrange another time to go out, boy, girl have, again, a great time. You think result then come the i dont really have time for a relationship talk! Girl understands because of his type Job! Im not goin to say what it is though, but it does involve commitment. This always happens, i mean all the time. Ok, so i do go for certain type of man. You know, messy, spiky hair. Jeans and suit Jacket (gay look ) I don't put out, so where am i goin wrong?

Pay em

[Jessica Rabbit]

As the saying goes - be a slave in the kitchen, a lady in the restaurant and a whore in the bedroom.

 

However, I think I may have failed this one as I cannot cook for shit (and won't do any housework unless I REALLY have to, i.e. the house is infested with rats and cockroaches), I burp loudly in restaurants and have been accused of being selfish in bed (men do it all the time, why can't I?!?)

[Ginge]

QUOTE (Squirrel @ Apr 9 2004, 21:40)

Several two month flings with gaps in between over the course of two years! Does that put your mind at rest?

Yes thank you.