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quote:


Originally posted by scouseladuk:

find a woman who:

 

a) likes football

B)
doesnt nag

c) is a nympho

d) doesnt play mind games (most important!)

e) wont [censored] u about

f) doesnt mind u having female mates


I havent got a kylie arse tho [Crying] but im all of the above and i still get grief and wanker bf's!! [Roll Eyes]

 

Is it the lack of the kylie arse thats lettin me down?? [Confused]

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I agree with u Claire I'm all the above cept i can't say i'm 2 keen on the footie - and i still end up with complete tossers [Question] U know what i read once when i read ones of those crappy relationship books 4 a laugh - well they reckon guys that want the above don't want long relationships - the ones that get the decent guys r dead boring into cooking, cleaning and line-dancing - oh and by the way if u hadn't guesses it was written by a yank!!! [shocking] all i can say to that is then i will always be single - i'd rather meet tossers than do the cooking and cleaning [Well Happy]

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Originally posted by Bunnykins230:

I agree with u Claire I'm all the above cept i can't say i'm 2 keen on the footie - and i still end up with complete tossers
[Question]
U know what i read once when i read ones of those crappy relationship books 4 a laugh - well they reckon guys that want the above don't want long relationships - the ones that get the decent guys r dead boring into cooking, cleaning and line-dancing - oh and by the way if u hadn't guesses it was written by a yank!!!
[shocking]
all i can say to that is then i will always be single - i'd rather meet tossers than do the cooking and cleaning
[Well Happy]


[Laugh] i cook and clean but only cos i have a flat and if i didnt do it no1 would lol!!

 

As for football, i do genuinely like it!! And with all rest of said "requirements" but doesnt give us a head start does it...or does it???? [Confused]

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quote:


Originally posted by Lia:

 

still cant find a bloke though to put up with me?
[Well Happy]


[Laugh][Laugh][Laugh] Silly girl! [Well Happy]

 

THERE ARE LOADS THAT WOULD!

 

[ 22 July 2002, 15:59: Message edited by: CreamyC ]

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Originally posted by ClaireMessy:

 

[Laugh]
i cook and clean but only cos i have a flat and if i didnt do it no1 would lol!!

 

As for football, i do genuinely like it!! And with all rest of said "requirements" but doesnt give us a head start does it...or does it????
[Confused]


Your only problem is your confidence, other than that you'd be fine! [Happy]

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Originally posted by CreamyC:

quote:

Originally posted by ClaireMessy:

 

[Laugh]
i cook and clean but only cos i have a flat and if i didnt do it no1 would lol!!

 

As for football, i do genuinely like it!! And with all rest of said "requirements" but doesnt give us a head start does it...or does it????
[Confused]


Your only problem is your confidence, other than that you'd be fine!
[Happy]


I know i do and im lookin for some as we speak!! [Happy]

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I'm 25 now and have had 2 marriage proposals, both whom I've turned down and went onto dump. In between the relationships, I dated until the scheduling became an issue....so I've got a bit under my belt for experience.

 

Now, sounds to me like you guys are having a little trouble getting rid of the baggage that comes with relationships!! It's not that bad, really!

 

Think of it this way. If you break up, it was for the best. If your eye starts to wander, it's cause he or she that you're supposedly committed to, isn't the one for you!

 

Everyone needs to realize that chances are, they're not going to be with the same person FOREVER. If you wind up at the alter, that's a different story! So, accept the fact that your relationship will likely end up OVER at some point, and move on!

 

It's damn easy, once you've been thru it a couple of times!

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quote:


Originally posted by scouseladuk:

 

yeah i found that out after 5 years of relationships then figured either theres one of two avenues i can take - become a slut or become celobate. im currently deciding on the best option.

 

Also taking into consideration: Becoming a male gigalo


I have resisted the slut option - for now!

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Whats the point in relationships anyway, they only cause potential [censored] and grief! It affects you for ages, makes you constantly pissed off so why bother?!?!

so cynical in one so young 8-)

 

put like that creamy, it's almost 100% guaranteed that it will become a self-fulfilling prophecy...

 

see you

 

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not really, people go thru stuff and it does make u think things like that, i mean u cant say u have never thought somethin similar to that or along those lines!! The thing that matters is that ur able to pick urself up, dust urself off and carry on once ur over the bad feelings!! Havin a thought like that doesnt mean "it's almost 100% guaranteed that it will become a self-fulfilling prophecy..." Simply means that ur human!! [Happy]

 

[ 23 July 2002, 02:50: Message edited by: ClaireMessy ]

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In terms of relationships and getting involved and as hard as I come across about "not caring" I have been ruthlessly exposed as giving a [censored] and proves that maybe I am human after all !

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not really, people go thru stuff and it does make u think things like that, i mean u cant say u have never thought somethin similar to that or along those lines!! The thing that matters is that ur able to pick urself up, dust urself off and carry on once ur over the bad feelings!! Havin a thought like that doesnt mean "it's almost 100% guaranteed that it will become a self-fulfilling prophecy..." Simply means that ur human!!

hi claire

 

generally speaking, i tend to agree with you. it's easy to forget the axis of time and also the fact that this medium robs us of a lot of subtlety and nuance which make up such a large part of other forms of communication.

 

in creamy's case, time will tell i suppose.

 

it's wrong to generalise and even more silly to pigeonhole but, when it comes to relationships and love, there are (at least) two types of people - those who spend their time wondering when things are going to go wrong (as usual...), and those who spend their time making sure things are wonderful. the outlook tends, in my opinion, to directly affect the reality.

 

you are right, we are human and we all get down from time to time. i definitely agree that it's how we choose to deal with that which makes us who we are.

 

have a great week

 

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