CTW Reviewers Wub Wub Posted July 31, 2002 CTW Reviewers Share Posted July 31, 2002 quote: Originally posted by CreamyC: quote: Originally posted by scouseladuk: my answer: girlfriends are a waste of time, money and heartache. Dont bother. But then again im a moanin old sod! SLUK, I reckon we should get married! there's an image I never needed.....wonder who gets to be the woman? Anyway, back on subject. . . . . . If you do love her, and she IS against it, then it looks like a decision is in order. If she can't accept what you've changed into, then it's going to be rough. I'm not saying she has to like it, but toleration can be found at least. Quote Harder. Faster. Better. Stronger. Badder. Smarter. Wub Wub Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CTW Members Belle Posted July 31, 2002 CTW Members Share Posted July 31, 2002 quote: Originally posted by scouseladuk: my answer: girlfriends are a waste of time, money and heartache. Dont bother. But then again im a moanin old sod! And all the wonderful regular sex combined with someone to go home with at night is well worth the time and effort Quote I am NOT a dj Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CTW Members Claire DC Posted July 31, 2002 CTW Members Share Posted July 31, 2002 There needs to be some compromise on both parts here i think, what that compromise is, is up to you and ur girlfriend!! I think what most men seem to want these days is regular sex and all the benefits of havin a gf but dont wana put the time and effort into things to make them work, not all gf's are grief and hassle etc, just some are and i think that that ruins it for the nicer ones...its the same with men for us, theyre not all bastards but some are which gives the rest a tainted profile...i always judge people on their own merits not off other peoples, i think its always worth a chance and if things dont work then at least u tried!! I think what im, trying to say here is that if u at least give it a good go with her and are willing to compromise then she cant ask for more than that!! Quote You Can Never Have Too Much Of A Good Thing It'd Be Rude Not 2!! *I Need A Tissue* MSN: Claire___DC @hotmail.com Email: clairedc @ dsl .pipex .com Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CTW Reviewers Wub Wub Posted July 31, 2002 CTW Reviewers Share Posted July 31, 2002 quote: Originally posted by Claire DC: There needs to be some compromise on both parts here i think, what that compromise is, is up to you and ur girlfriend!! I think what most men seem to want these days is regular sex and all the benefits of havin a gf but dont wana put the time and effort into things to make them work, not all gf's are grief and hassle etc Sounds like a case of trying to have your cake and eat it. Quote Harder. Faster. Better. Stronger. Badder. Smarter. Wub Wub Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CTW Members alasdairm Posted July 31, 2002 CTW Members Share Posted July 31, 2002 quote: still can't bring myself to be a bastard though hey dakers i'm sure i've said this before but if dumping somebody is the right thing for you then, while the dumping will suck (for both of you) you are not being a bastard. you will find out, eventually, that you are being quite the opposite... alasdair Quote "I've got medication, honey. I've got wings to fly", Primal Scream:Jailbird msn: alasdairmanson@hotmail.com yahoo IM: alimanson@yahoo.com AOL IM: alimanson23@aol.com email: ali_manson@yahoo.com homepage: http://www.magicglasses.com Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CTW Members alasdairm Posted July 31, 2002 CTW Members Share Posted July 31, 2002 quote: What do u do when your gf doesnt understand clubbing and drugs hey it's the things we have in common which bring us together. it's our differences which keep us together... this is a hard one. clubbing (and drugs) can be so important to some people that they can not consoder being in a relationship with somebody who they can not share that with. it's a decision which everybody has to make for themselves. i think you'l get a lot of good advice on this board from a lot of excellent people but you and your girlfriend have to sort this out. my advice is to talk with your girlfriend. i hope, whatever happens, that you can solve this in such a way that you are both happy alasdair Quote "I've got medication, honey. I've got wings to fly", Primal Scream:Jailbird msn: alasdairmanson@hotmail.com yahoo IM: alimanson@yahoo.com AOL IM: alimanson23@aol.com email: ali_manson@yahoo.com homepage: http://www.magicglasses.com Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CTW Members tidyboy69 Posted July 31, 2002 Author CTW Members Share Posted July 31, 2002 onec again cheers people u are being a big help to me. nice 1 Quote KEEP IT TIDY!!!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CTW Members Dakers Posted July 31, 2002 CTW Members Share Posted July 31, 2002 I didn't mean it literally... errrm in fact, i'm not sure what I meant at all there... doh! ignore the fooked up nutter that is myself! Maybe I meant that I felt guilty for masturbating when I was in the relationship with her, because I wasn't feeling satisfied.... I dunno! Quote Dakers Email & MSN: pdb_1@hotmail.com Mob: 07788 133678 Only Smart-E's have the answer! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CTW Reviewers Wub Wub Posted July 31, 2002 CTW Reviewers Share Posted July 31, 2002 Mate, if I'm in a relationship I tend to masturbate MORE than when I'm not. Nothing wrong with that. Think of it this way - if the relationship isn't satisfying you sexually, you could be going somewhere else, right? But by choosing to have a wank, it's almost a sign of respect to the other half. If that makes sense? Quote Harder. Faster. Better. Stronger. Badder. Smarter. Wub Wub Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CTW Members Dakers Posted July 31, 2002 CTW Members Share Posted July 31, 2002 Yeah maybe, I see your point. But I've never been in a position to go elsewhere (like I said, I'm not Brad Pitt, nor have I had a one night stand before) so I guess I considered myself lucky to have someone who liked me for me, found me sexy, and I decided that by keeping my mouth shut thing's be better all round. Anyway, I digress..... Quote Dakers Email & MSN: pdb_1@hotmail.com Mob: 07788 133678 Only Smart-E's have the answer! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CTW Reviewers Wub Wub Posted July 31, 2002 CTW Reviewers Share Posted July 31, 2002 Talking like that reminds me of me a couple of years back. When I first started college and got my first proper girlfriend, I did EVERYTHING to stay with her, even though the relationship wasn't working, simple because I didn't have another rock to jump to. As soon as I realised that hey, I'm not that bad. A decent personality wins out over good looks any day of the week. You seem a decent bloke - you'd be surprised. Quote Harder. Faster. Better. Stronger. Badder. Smarter. Wub Wub Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CTW Members Dakers Posted July 31, 2002 CTW Members Share Posted July 31, 2002 Yeah, maybe sounds familiar Wubster. Trouble is though, whatever I do I'm going to end up in the shite. Looks like I'm stuck with being alone for the next six months, and then sorting it out when she gets back. I can't bring myself to hurt her while she's away, and like I said, I might be making the wrong decision. Everything becomes 10x harder when you have to try and work it out alone, as you can never remember exactly what it is that you're trying to sort out... Quote Dakers Email & MSN: pdb_1@hotmail.com Mob: 07788 133678 Only Smart-E's have the answer! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CTW Reviewers Wub Wub Posted July 31, 2002 CTW Reviewers Share Posted July 31, 2002 Hang on, isn't she with her best mate on this world jaunt thing? It's not like she's going to be without support. And she'll have enough to see and do to take her mind off things. Quote Harder. Faster. Better. Stronger. Badder. Smarter. Wub Wub Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CTW Members Dakers Posted July 31, 2002 CTW Members Share Posted July 31, 2002 Maybe... still can't bring myself to be a bastard though... and like I said, until I can find some way to work things out in my head then perhaps it's best if I don't do anything at all... after all, I've been wandering round like I've got no idea for the last two months.. what's another six? Quote Dakers Email & MSN: pdb_1@hotmail.com Mob: 07788 133678 Only Smart-E's have the answer! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CTW Members Bunnykins Posted July 31, 2002 CTW Members Share Posted July 31, 2002 I could handle a guy that didn't do drugs as long as he didn't preach - but no clubs - no way - i was wiv my x 4 f**in years n years n put up wiv him never wanting to go out n sit in front of the telly wathcing his f**kin black n white war films - I learn't from this and other guys i been out wiv since if u don't have stuff in common then it just doesnt work however u mite fancy them - it jsut causes too many problems and well to me it's a big turn off and well being my whole life revolves around clubbin then i'd never get to see 'em would i?! if they didn't come 2!! To be honest despite all this bollox that relationship experts come out with that if there's lust there then u don't need anything esle and opposites attract an all that - my current fella is exacctly the same as me - we got same outlook on life, same music tastes, we even think the same - it's uncanny!!- i'll say something and he'll say i was jsut thinking that n vice versa - we got exact same backgrounds, and we've never had a arguement and get on great, [censored] i know i'm going on here but what i'm trying to say is the more u got in common the more chance there is of it working ok:D Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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