Would it [censored]

[pete_n]

Serious question for y'all

Can a relationship still [censored] if the girlfriend is kinda going off clubbing and has stopped with the whole narcotic thing, but the boyfriend just can't seem to get his head out of the clouds?

[TidyTraxGrant]

Id say of course if it was strong enough and you seriously loved each other, clubbing shouldnt really come between you like that !

[pete_n]

But don't you find clubbing becomes less of a hobby, and more a way of life. You go out on a weekend and you're in La La land for pretty much most of it. It can cause friction?

[TidyTraxGrant]

I don't take drugs and never have and neither does my g / f , so we don't really get that problem !

Sometimes, i agree, clubbing almost does seem like a religion, but at the end of the day, its only a number of hours ravin your heart out and havin a laff with mates.

It all depends - what do you see as more important - clubbing or the Mrs ?

[pete_n]

That's a hard question to answer, g/f - obviously I love her. But clubbing (and related subjects) is pretty much ehat I've done for the last 3/4 years. I dunno if I could just give it all up?

I'm in a dilly of a pickle!

[MItz]

I think that you can make it [censored] as long as thats what you really want. It should be a bit easier that she has been into clubbin, 'cause she understands what its all about even if she doesn't want to do it anymore. Make time for her as well as clubbin and I'm sure you will be fine!

 

Hope it all goes well matey!

[TidyTraxGrant]

Just sit her down mate & have a chat is probably the best thing you could do.

Im lucky, my bird hates all my hard house & trance, she's into the usual [censored] most follow , hiphop, r n b and all that, so we rarely go & enjoy a club together, diff. cultures !

 

But don't give it up for anyone, i wouldn't.

[matthew james]

Serious question for y'all

Can a relationship still [censored] if the girlfriend is kinda going off clubbing and has stopped with the whole narcotic thing, but the boyfriend just can't seem to get his head out of the clouds?

 

Handy advice from matthew:

 

Force feed her 6 grams of Ket and tell her to stop being such a kill joy.

 

If she still doesn't warm to the idea of you getting twatted, DUMP THE BITCH.

 

m.

[MItz]

Handy advice from Mitz

 

*ignore Matthew lol!*

[pete_n]

I like your style m.

 

Not sure how well that would [censored] in the real world though!

[matthew james]

Handy advice for Mitz:

 

 

Handy advice for pete:

Compramise [sp] is the way forward. Simply tell her that unless she compramises with you wanting to get battered, she's heading for a single life.

 

EASY

 

m.

[MItz]

Dont quite understand my advice (but I wouldn't worry cus I can be dumb!)

 

Think this bit of advice for Peten is a lot lot better hehehe...a lot less likely to get a smack in the face!

[pete_n]

m.

How does me "telling her" that "I will get twatted" tie in with this "compramise" thingy

 

Is a compramise not an agreement between 2 people, whereby we both give something? What have I given in this agreement - Or am I being perdantic?

[MItz]

But if you didnt 'get twatted' then it wouldn't be a compromise either because it would be all what she wants. How often do you go clubbin/get twatted? You could maybe just cut down a little bit to make a bit of time for her as well?

[pete_n]

Too be honest I don't go out as much as I'd like.