Would you go after someone who as married?

[Wub Wub]

I thought of adopting one once

 

bollocks to that. It'd be fun for a couple of days, then you'd throw it out.......like a kittin.

[Blink]

then you'd throw it out.......like a kittin.

 

You reckon a bag, some bricks and a canal would [censored] on a consience? I wanna get rid of mine

[Wub Wub]

CLub it to death with the brick, making sure the skull is properly caved in, then into the canal.

[CreamyC]

My wife had taste! Which is why the suicide was so instant!

[Shenlong]

I could say, find out what she thinks first and if she's up for it then shag away! but unfortunately i haave an overactive conscience and i would say leave it. If she wants out of her marriage then let her decide for her first and if she does then by all emans go for it. But not if she still together with her hubby.

[Saffy]

Perhaps youjust have a crush on her because she seems unattainable?

 

She might want a bit of excitement ... how long as she been married?

 

Ive been married 17 years .. and its a long long time having sex with the same person ...

 

I look at other men and fantasize I must admit .. and I flirt like crazy .. he he .. tis fun ..

 

I have a family though .. if my marriage broke up through me then I woul dhave a hell of a lot of MY conscience ..

 

 

[rainbowgurl]

oh creamy im so sorry hun, i didnt know that ....as for me ......no never.......ive been cheated on and id never do that...been there tho hun....its called self control...but if she will leave her hubby for you without sex, thats different after she has left him or her ....i like a clear concience, if they would do that to their partner, then they would most likely do it to me

[neet]

O.K. I am gonna make a stance for marriage here...

 

I really wouldn't do it, it isn't worth the guilt, you may fcuk something up big time for her...and to be honest I wouldn't think much of one of my mates if they did that.

[Beckie in La La Land]

when i was about 17 i went out with a CID officer. after a month i found out he was married.

 

they had just bought a house together and we used to stay there, i thought it was just his, until i got told by her friend!!

 

and then i found out he was 36!!

 

so no, its realy not a good idea, if she is lying to her husband,she must be lying to you too.

 

i completely disagree with it all anyway as last year i found out my best friend who i shared a flat with was shagging my boyf behind my back. it caused hassle for both her and her family, she ended up leaving uni because of it all.

 

it happens all the timer, you cant trust anyone believe me!!

[SharonW]

Surely there are singles out there you can tamper with without having to resort to ones that are married ?

[rachel]

It might be fun at the time but in the long run i don't think its worth it.

There's nothing wrong with a bit of flirting though that can be fun and you don't have to worry about being responsible for breaking up someone's marriage.

I think you will have more self respect and people will think more of you for not doing it.

[djiceman]

erm.......................... no comment !

 

 

[Blink]

Glad to see people defending the virtues of marriage. I have tended to be the cheater, and have never been the "bit on the side". It would kill me if anyone did that to me, I think it is probably just something to keep me interested until I reach a ppoint where I find the right person, and am ready to settle down again

[Geordie Becky]

no, simply beacuse i know the upset n hurt it can cause, but i know you can not help who you fall for so its a total personal choice if you could do it to yourself and the other people involved

[Saffy]

GOod to see you all "solid" on the one another for life bit ..

 

 

 

It helps if you're friends aswell as lovers ..