Trust

[Louise]

can you really put a time on how long it takes to trust someone?

 

just been talking to my mate and she was crying cus her fella had a 1 night stand, she said she trusted him fully, which i found quite shocking as they had only been together 3 weeks today

 

can you really know someone in that time?

 

iv only just started to trust my fella and its been nearly 8 months, and to be honest i dont think i will ever trust anyone (not just partners) fully (but thats because i have a suspisious mind)

 

am i alone in thinking this because she was shocked that i said in 3 weeks you cant know someone enough to trust.

 

maybe i am wrong

Edited April 23, 2004 by Louise

[Lisa]

Im a firm believer that trust is built over a great period of time & it takes a lot to trust someone 100% & I also think it depends on how badly you have been let down in the past by people & partners too.

[Guest]

QUOTE (Lisa @ Apr 23 2004, 10:52)

Im a firm believer that trust is built over a great period of time & it takes a lot to trust someone 100% & I also think it depends on how badly you have been let down in the past by people & partners too.

Yeah that ^ .

[djiceman]

depends on what their personalities are like. some people can trust their partners fully after 2 days, some can't trust them fully ever.......

 

tell your friend if she wants to talk further, that you'll always be there for her.

 

 

"men! you can't live with us, you can't live without us!"

[Louise]

surely if you trust everyone from day 1 your just open to heartache

[Guest]

QUOTE (djiceman @ Apr 23 2004, 10:54)

"men! you can't live with us, you can't live without us!"

Are you sure about that ?

 

[Aaron]

QUOTE (Lisa @ Apr 23 2004, 10:52)

Im a firm believer that trust is built over a great period of time & it takes a lot to trust someone 100% & I also think it depends on how badly you have been let down in the past by people & partners too.

definatly

[Louise]

glad im not on my own, was begining to think it was me that was the problem case

[Bunnykins]

After recents events think I'll find it hard to ever trust or beleive any1 totally again - blokes anyway.

[Guest Shenlong]

I tend to trust people fairly quickly and easily, i generally so see the good/better side in people. But been told by couple of people that i'm too trusting, probably why i've been burnt by so many people in the past

[EliteChick]

QUOTE (Shenlong @ Apr 23 2004, 14:00)

I tend to trust people fairly quickly and easily, i generally so see the good/better side in people. But been told by couple of people that i'm too trusting, probably why i've been burnt by so many people in the past

Same here

[sweet26]

I trust ppl.. but after you've been jilted really badly it's hard to completely trust someone...even if I know they are completely trustworthy.. The slightest hint of something goin wrong and i think the worst...its a bad thing to be hurt and then it gets passed on to others...

[Louise]

QUOTE (sweet26 @ Apr 26 2004, 02:47)

The slightest hint of something goin wrong and i think the worst

think thats where im going wrong now, all i need to do is have a bad dream or even watch a programme that involes affairs and i think its gonna happen for real, never been like it before, but for some reason this time over its all different

[Diablo]

There are only a handful of people i trust, one of my x's ended up going off with my so called best mate (at the time) a few years back, took me ages to trust anyone again

[Tidy Tart]

after years of being cheated on and lied to i find it ever so hard to trust any1!!

 

i can now say these past few months i have found 4 people i can trust me life with and they know who they are!

 

J,I,D and R

 

i still and always will find it hard to trust a male if im in a relationship with him tho!