can it be possible to choose not to be Gay?

[Tresh]

QUOTE (Kether @ May 6 2004, 14:21)

QUOTE (Tresh @ May 6 2004, 14:09) QUOTE (Kether @ May 6 2004, 14:02) QUOTE (Louise @ May 6 2004, 11:49) QUOTE (Tresh @ May 6 2004, 11:29) According to Freud, all women have lesbian tendancies. thats cus only a woman can find a clitoris Incorrect. Yes but ur a cheat. Unfounded. Hermaphrodite.

[Guest Kether]

Libellous.

[Tresh]

Slanderous if anything. But it's not.

[Guest Kether]

QUOTE (Tresh @ May 6 2004, 16:36)

Slanderous if anything. But it's not.

It's in writing, it's untrue, it's defamatory, it's libel.

[Tresh]

Fair point on the libel thing, I was thinking the internet was speaking out loud...

 

However you have to prove it's defamtory, in others words prove that it has in a significant way tarnished. I just show that u were thought to be a plonker in the first place.

[Guest Kether]

QUOTE (Tresh @ May 6 2004, 18:28)

Fair point on the libel thing, I was thinking the internet was speaking out loud... However you have to prove it's defamtory, in others words prove that it has in a significant way tarnished. I just show that u were thought to be a plonker in the first place.

You didn't call me a plonker, you called me a cheating hermaphrodites in front of me peers.

[LiquidEyes]

QUOTE (Tresh @ May 6 2004, 11:29)

According to Freud, all women have lesbian tendancies.

Yeah but Freud reckoned that most people had a repressed desire to shag their mothers as well (or something).

[Guest Kether]

QUOTE (LiquidEyes @ May 6 2004, 22:31)

QUOTE (Tresh @ May 6 2004, 11:29) According to Freud, all women have lesbian tendancies. Yeah but Freud reckoned that most people had a repressed desire to shag their mothers as well (or something). Oedipus complex.   The only reason they didn't was fear of castration by their father.

[Alex]

He was a disturbed man trying to find reason for his feelings.

[Ian Cashman]

[Bushy]

If somebody is Homosexual they are homosexual.

If somebody is Straight they are straight

If somebody is Bisexual they are just plain greedy.

 

Seriously though, i dont think that anyone can be 'cured' of being gay. I dont even think 'cured' is the correct phrase to use, as being gay is not an illness. Everybody has feelings and desires and the people who are attracted to the same sex just have different desires. You cannot change what you feel whether you want to or not.

 

Although i stand by the fact that Bisexuality is just plain greedy!

[russelldust]

there are definitely shades of gayness though (or rather a spectrum) with me at the danderously heterosexual end of things and benrostwood at the completely gay but not yet come to terms with it end...

 

 

(joke)

 

I think you can choose to a certain extent how far you move along the spectrum...

[Bushy]

Agreed.

[Aaron]

QUOTE (Bushy @ May 10 2004, 18:58)

Seriously though, i dont think that anyone can be 'cured' of being gay. I dont even think 'cured' is the correct phrase to use, as being gay is not an illness. Everybody has feelings and desires and the people who are attracted to the same sex just have different desires. You cannot change what you feel whether you want to or not.

Absoloutly.. Hit the Nail on the head, so you have!

 

I bat for the otherside myself, and I remember trying to "brainwash" myself when i was in my early teens into being straight. I think i managed to suppress those feelings for about a week, before I gave up...

[Alex]

You are what you are. Best thing for people to do is to accept what they are.

 

You can't pretend to be something you are not.