can it be possible to choose not to be Gay?

[russelldust]

only thing I would add is that Bushy's comment

 

'anyone who is bisexual is greedy' is wrong,

 

'anyone who is bisexual is indecisive'...

 

imagine going out for dinner-

 

"would you like still or sparkling water?"

 

"Um, half and half please."

 

 

(apologies for appalling paraphrasing of Alan Partridge).

Edited May 10, 2004 by russelldust

[Bushy]

that was a humorous angle i was trying to add to the post russell. lol

 

 

[LiquidEyes]

QUOTE (russelldust @ May 10 2004, 19:00)

I think you can choose to a certain extent how far you move along the spectrum...

Indeed. Perhaps, if the pressures of society were removed and we felt no pressure to "be one or the other", very few people would be totally at one end of the scale? (Apart from you of course Russ.)

 

Of course there are fuck all "straight" blokes on this planet who will admit to having even the slightest gay side to them...

 

I've never understood why people have to go out of their way to behave like the "archetypal straight" or "archetypal gay" - I'm equally puzzled by gays who excessively camp it up, and straight guys who exhibit an overwhelming need to "act a man". Peer pressure, perhaps, and a lack of sense of personal identity?

[Alex]

I act the way I do as that is who I am.