Would you?.......

[Teska]

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Nah, bad experiences with your gender are quite minimal!!

 

Anything I write on this forum in the 2nd or 3rd person is either hypothetically derived, or comes from someone I know. My recent 3rd person posts come from a girlfriend, studying in Spain, who's always emailing me with dramas, problems, so forth in her life. Totally off her rocker, hilarious, and has the most dramatic life I know. This email was titled something like, "is it me or is it them?".... recent dating experiences of hers. My answers...

 

#1. Dating should be fun and exciting. This might be a problem...what would you do socially? Go to church?

 

#2. If the kissing isn't good, how do you get turned on from there? Where's the heat, then??

 

#3. Irrelevant

 

#4. Whatever motivates him to be fit...

 

#5. To say that to a person they were just starting to date? Sign of a total SCHMUCK!! Lose him in a second.

[Belle]

1. he/she is ultra conservative: faith in god, didn’t like dance music, didn’t like to dance, financial well-being is one of their main goals in life (the belief that money means contentment).

 

Answer: I'd go splitsville, too creepy (except for the money means contentment, it certainly helps lead the way!)

 

2. he/or she is a BAD kisser (which means they’re lacking at WHAT ELSE??)

 

Answer: I'd pursue it, not kissing up to your expectations sometimes just means they're last bf or gf was lame, unlike me hehe!!

 

3. he/she is slept with (many) more people than you (IS IT significant?)

 

Answer: Cannot be significant, unless he hit triple digits hehe!

 

4. he/she listens to Britney Spears while working out in the gym (enough said)

 

Answer: It wouldn't bother me if he looked at her, but listened to her? His taste would have to be horrible, not someone I'd date!

 

5. he/she believes that “what you don’t know, won’t hurt you” is ok in relationships. (is honesty always best?)

 

Answer: I believe that some things are better left unsaid! Especially when the number of relationship/dating experiences grows, you have more proud and not-so-proud moments.

 

I expect my free hair-dye sample in 2 to 4 weeks

[Belle]

I don't know about the kissing thing!!! I've dated some good kissers that were total slobs in bed!!!

 

On the other hand, I think that physical attraction is what turns me on. Don't need to touch him to want to jump him!! Kissing is a formality!! It certainly can be taught, as can many other things!!

 

Fred....are you trying to tell me you were rhyming off all million positions your first time?! hehe!! Things come with time/experience!

 

Good discussion everyone

 

This one's getting 5 pretty stars!!! Okay 6, cos my shirt has a big star on it today

[big_ee69]

Would you stop dating someone or start dating someone if you discovered that…. .

 

-he/she is ultra conservative: YES

-faith in god: only if any sort of Fundementalist, happy clappy, shove it in your face type. Don't really think i could cope with islam...even the moderates are hardline by western standards...i mean no alcohol, and ramadam!!

-didn’t like dance music: yes - would shag them tho.

didn’t like to dance: as above

financial well-being is one of their main goals in life (the belief that money means contentment). : Lack of sufficient money is a problem, so they would have to belive that aquistion of sufficient money was important

 

2. he/or she is a BAD kisser (which means they’re lacking at WHAT ELSE??) Yes...sex is def instinctual, but you get better with practice (bit like dancing) kissing is not, so bad kisser kills it for me!!, again might be up for a shag, if i was horny

 

3. he/she is slept with (many) more people than you (IS IT significant?) No problem, happens all the time to Guy''s they just don't know (and shouldn't want to know) about it!!

 

4. he/she listens to Britney Spears while working out in the gym (enough said) Def Non starter!!

 

5. he/she believes that “what you don’t know, won’t hurt you” is ok in relationships. (is honesty always best?)

The truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth...No way.

Outright lies...no way either....

 

How many times have YOU said

 

"What a nice haircut"

"MMM that was the best ever"

"no you haven't put on weight"

[FredTheBaddie]

Fred....are you trying to tell me you were rhyming off all million positions your first time?! hehe!! Things come with time/experience!

 

Who says it's all about a million positions ? You don't have to be experienced to be passionate ...

[Mr Moo]

5. he/she believes that “what you don’t know, won’t hurt you” is ok in relationships. (is honesty always best?)

 

I dont agree with that 4 [censored]! Id hate to be on the receiving end, so therefore dont do it!

[Belle]

I do agree with that!! I was thinking of the other way that you're good ie can undo zippers and bra straps with teeth etc etc!!

 

But, seeing how we're talking passion, to me it's not something that can be turned on or off. Passion comes from chemistry between two people. Even if I am a passionate person, I've still had [censored] kisses from men. I've pulled random men etc, and was damn good doing it, but I don't think that passion had alot to do with it. Unless of course I'm full of chemistry hehe!! To me, passion is a sincere expression.

 

K, must stop now, cos I'm rambling!! And I'd prefer to wiggle

[Belle]

There's a difference between deceiving someone in your current relationship and sparing them the details of past conquers and relationships.

 

My bf and I don't ask eachother a whole lot about our pasts, cos I've got some not-so-proud moments. This tell-all [censored] isn't the way to go to me! We of course talk about exs a bit and stuff like that, but that's not the same.