being clingy?

[Mr_Happy]

whats your deffinition of clingy people?

 

i would describe myself as clingy. i can cope with going weeks w/o seeing my girl (gotten used to it now ) but it hurts not to chat to them everyday (if just via text).

[Lisa]

It depends on what context, ie a friend or a partner. A partner can become clingy when they wanna know every move & wanna be with you constantly, this is not a bad thing, obviously in a relationship, you have respect & inform your partner of things you have planned etc, but it is when it turns to possesivness that it becomes clingy, pretty much the same with mates, when they constantly invite themselves around or with you & never give you any space, even when visiting the buggering loo's whilst out!!

[Maria]

agreed Lisa

 

I woudl also say that clingy is someone who wants to be by your side 24/7 !

 

 

[Guest Jay]

 

Clingy is:

 

Partner wanting to know what you have been doing

What you have been upto

 

if they ask how your day has been, that is a definate sign of clinging.

 

expecting you to tell them you dont hate them

 

kissing during sex is a bit clingy,l im not to keen on eye contact either.

 

wanting to spend 'quality time' together which doesnt involve shagging (w/o eye contact natch) or watching fgootball is clingy.

[Rush]

when you get a big green boggy stuck to your nose thats clingy

[Lisa]

QUOTE (Jay @ Feb 13 2004, 11:17 AM)

Clingy is: Partner wanting to know what you have been doing What you have been upto if they ask how your day has been, that is a definate sign of clinging. expecting you to tell them you dont hate them kissing during sex is a bit clingy,l im not to keen on eye contact either. wanting to spend 'quality time' together which doesnt involve shagging (w/o eye contact natch) or watching fgootball is clingy.

[Louise]

i think your safe happy, i want to talk to phil every day....sometimes we call each other 3 times a day, i wouldnt call it clingy though.

 

my x was clingy, every time we went out he would be all over me, evry time i talked to someone he was there, he used to come bar with me, wait outside the loos and was constantly kissing/hugging me..........it was like i was going out with a magnet

 

he wnted to move in with me from day one, and slowley started bringing all his stuff round, i found out by the time we had fell out that he had rented his flat out to his mate because he thought he was gonna move into mine full time.

 

i did tell him on a few occasions, he cooled off for about 2 days then it started over again.

 

needless to say it lasted about 3 months

Edited February 13, 2004 by Louise

[Guest Jay]

QUOTE (Rush @ Feb 13 2004, 11:20 AM)

when you get a big green boggy stuck to your nose thats clingy

 

a bog would have to be well clingy to stick to your face

[Louise]

[Rush]

QUOTE (Jay @ Feb 13 2004, 11:23 AM)

QUOTE (Rush @ Feb 13 2004, 11:20 AM) when you get a big green boggy stuck to your nose thats clingy   a bog would have to be well clingy to stick to your face nose ,depends on what kind of bog

[Guest Jay]

 

ok, next time i see you (is that gareth??)

 

pick a bog of your choice, stick it too your face and ill apologise

[Rush]

QUOTE (Jay @ Feb 13 2004, 11:45 AM)

ok, next time i see you (is that gareth??) pick a bog of your choice, stick it too your face and ill apologise

Ok Jay your on ,u would could say camden have a nice selection of bogs that could be used as possible cling ons

[Lisa]

QUOTE (Rush @ Feb 13 2004, 11:48 AM)

QUOTE (Jay @ Feb 13 2004, 11:45 AM) ok, next time i see you (is that gareth??) pick a bog of your choice, stick it too your face and ill apologise Ok Jay your on ,u would could say camden have a nice selection of bogs that could be used as possible cling ons well they are certainly caked in cling ons urgh!!!!!

[Mr_Happy]

hmmm, slightly off topic but made an amuzing read

 

kinda suspected it would happen tho. 'clingy' is too easy to poke fun at

[kitty]

do u find tho that if ur clingy its to the UN clingy people,and the people like u ur not interested in? does that make sense?

 

i can be clingy(not bunny boiler style)

if i like someone i like hearing from them most days,its nice.

 

me and my ole bes mates were like this however a girl im good mates with now thinks bes mates see each othere once/twice a month and tex maybe once in two weeks. so rather then upset myself thinking she not care i back off and see her as just a 'mate'.

also she only wanna see people when single,which i think is not nice,like she uses people. she's actually quite strange