why on earth am i such a ......

[DJ Elemental]

Trudes said:

DJ_Elemental said:

Hey Trudes, sup hun?

 

anything to do with what we've talked about before? if you need a chat, im here too!

 

yes and no, i'm prob just being silly and letting everything get on top of me but thanks hun

 

ah you dont wanna be doing that hun trust me hope ya sort it out thou

[Trudes]

DJ_Elemental said:

Trudes said:

DJ_Elemental said:

Hey Trudes, sup hun?

 

anything to do with what we've talked about before? if you need a chat, im here too!

 

yes and no, i'm prob just being silly and letting everything get on top of me but thanks hun

 

ah you dont wanna be doing that hun trust me hope ya sort it out thou

 

 

i keep telling myself that, but i figure if i just move to some far off country i could foget everything and start being instead of being whatever it is i'm being at the moment

[alasdairm]

Trudes said:

i keep telling myself that, but i figure if i just move to some far off country i could foget everything and start being instead of being whatever it is i'm being at the moment

 

hey trudes

 

i understand that feeling - i live 6000 miles from 'home'. but, believe me, if you deconstruct why you're felling the way you are feeling and set some goals based on your conclusions, you'll (almost certainly) find that the location is irrelevant.

 

that said, it may be, for example, that you are feeling claustrophobic and you have a desire to widen your horizons in which case a move may be wonderfully appropriate.

 

but, and again i don't wish to sound harsh, if a move away is just a way of running away from a problem, you'll end up being miserable somewhere else, potentially far from home and, ultimately, you'll feel even worse.

 

by all means move but do it for the 'right' reasons.

 

good luck

 

alasdair

Edited September 8, 2003 by alasdairm

[Jimmy]

I feel the same too sometimes