is being 'bi' the new black?

[Maria]

liquideyes said:

Maybe not in all cases,

 

Im happy - are you ?

 

[Maria]

Daredevil_Tony said:

I get randy all the time

 

We know.

[mistress_hoover]

Maria said:

liquideyes said:

Maybe not in all cases,

 

Im happy - are you ?

 

[Maria]

mistress_hoover said:

 

 

Im happy - are you ?

 

 

[Jimmy]

liquideyes said:

mistress_hoover said:

its as if some dont have any morals and just want a shag and thats it.

What's it got to do with morals?

If two consenting adults want to have no-strings-attached sex, good for them. It's not really my cuppa tea, but whatever floats your boat.

 

20 in 5 weeks thats horrible.

Some straight women are like that.

[Mr Moo]

kitty1 said:

It doesnt bother me but has anyone else noticed the amount of 'straight' girls snogging their girl mates just for attention or cause famous people have done it?

 

*look @ me* they are saying.

 

Its funny.

[Dave M]

getting bac 2 the point of the post, why is it ok 4 girls 2 b "bi", but not ok 4 blokes? it jus smacks double standards. god made every1 equal. wot's so disgustin bout a guy finding another guy attractive and wanting to have sex wiv him, but also wanting sex wiv a girl as well. as long as it's safe, then why should ppl worry.

 

 

 

[LittleMissLoud]

Jay said:

 

gay men shag loads of blokes all the time.

 

fact.

 

obviously not all but one standard question they ask gay men at the sex clinic (GUM) is

 

"have you had sex with more than 20 men in the last 5 weeks"

 

the person who told me this had, and it cant be that uncommon for them to ask the question as standard.

 

Bollocks! I WORK in a GUM clinic and we never ask that - we take a 3 month sexual history from ALL patients.

 

Gay men DO tend to be more promiscuous, and have anonymous sexual encounters in saunas (these seem to be quite popular within the London Gay community) but NOT ALL. Many are in long-term, loving relationships and some do not even partake in anal sex.

 

So let's not discriminate eh?!

[Daredevil Tony]

LittleMissLoud said:

Gay men DO tend to be more promiscuous, and have anonymous sexual encounters in saunas (these seem to be quite popular within the London Gay community).

 

[censored] I would hate to walk in on that down the local council swimming baths!!

[CreamyC]

I have to say that some of the replies on here are nothing short of pathetic, the amount of uneducated dickheads there are on here beggars belief. Sort the [censored] out. Half the facts most people have stated on this thread are COMPLETELY WRONG and some of the comments are more what you'd expect from a bunch of 3rd year senior school students.

[Wonky]

LittleMissLoud said:

Jay said:

 

gay men shag loads of blokes all the time.

 

fact.

 

obviously not all but one standard question they ask gay men at the sex clinic (GUM) is

 

"have you had sex with more than 20 men in the last 5 weeks"

 

the person who told me this had, and it cant be that uncommon for them to ask the question as standard.

 

Bollocks! I WORK in a GUM clinic and we never ask that - we take a 3 month sexual history from ALL patients.

 

Gay men DO tend to be more promiscuous, and have anonymous sexual encounters in saunas (these seem to be quite popular within the London Gay community) but NOT ALL. Many are in long-term, loving relationships and some do not even partake in anal sex.

 

So let's not discriminate eh?!

 

Alison, i never said ALL.

 

I also made it clear I was told by someone, who as a matter of fact wouldnt lie, he WAS asked that.

 

 

[RandomChick]

Though I prefer guys its fun in clubs with girls - theres nothing like a good old girlie snog!

[LittleMissLoud]

Jay said:

Alison, i never said ALL.

 

I also made it clear I was told by someone, who as a matter of fact wouldnt lie, he WAS asked that.

 

That is bad, he shouldn't have been treated like that.

 

You wouldn't get that in MY clinic

[Claire DC]

DevilishAngelJodie said:

Bi i think is just people who r undicised(sp) by themselves and don't nkow what they want

 

What are you on about, do you even know yourself? Im bi and i know exactly what i want/like with respect to my sexuality. Im bi because i find both men and women attractive and i enjoy being with them - it's how i feel, not because it's deemed 'cool' (is it deemed cool or is that down to someones perception of it?!) whats so wrong with that? To be honest i think i would be more in the wrong if i was to ignore my own feelings and supress one of them and stick to just one sex, either bein straight or a lesbian.

 

As for the bi men and women/gay men and women/straight men and women remarks, i dont really think its fair to stereotype them all into the same category.. i dont think it comes down to your sexuality as to how promiscuous you are, how you carry out your sexual relations or how many people you sleep with actually being a partner etc, i think it's more down to PEOPLE/THE PERSON THEY ARE.. everyone is different, what one gay/bi/straight person may do in terms of their sex and relationship side of things doesn't necessarily mean the next gay/bi/straight person does the same or thinks the same, and just because a seemingly lot of gay/bi/straight people seem to have the same view/actions it doesnt mean to say that ALL gay/bi/straight people have that outlook either.

 

As for if i would go with/go out with a bi male.. or female for that matter. Put it this way, im not gonna disregard someone i like just because they are bi, that would be a bit stupid IMO as if i like someone a lot and they like me back then surely that's what matters?! Their sexual orientation shouldnt be an issue, so long as theyre faithful.. at the end of the day if someone is gonna cheat on you then they will do it regardless of what sex or sexual orientation they are (again down to people/the person they are) and are as likely to sleep with another woman as much as they are with another man.

 

Just a quick question, if you see 2 girls kissing in a club.. how do you know what reason they are doing it for.. who is to say they're only doing it to look cool or create a shock factor?? I do agree with the theory of it, that if they are doing it for a shock factor or to look good then thats pretty lame but if thats what floats their boat then i guess thats down to them. I know i wouldnt kiss another girl if i didnt really want to, no matter how good it would look or how much of a shock it would cause.

 

Anyway thats just my opinion on things, sorry for the rant

[kitty]

where ever kitty goes....trouble follows

big to u peeps!

ok to get a little of this straight,i was putting my opinion and thats all,ill also admit i blow things out of proportion in what i said cause i think its funny, i.e men with high sex drives shag goats etc...my opinions genuine but with a little of my silly sense of humour in. its so refreshing for all these debates and opinions but no need to get shitty eh?just opinions,i think liquid eyes getting a little grumpy with my opinion hehe.

claire,i honestly have nout against bi's infact i think woman are just as great as men (shhhh) i meant the girls i know,who say they straight and admit to snogging mates for attention. thanks for ur feedback tho peeps!keep happy

 

p.s fred no need to be mean alot of people think the same as me in one way or another, esp the ones who work on the boats where gay men roam free,taking there pick off straight/bi/gay men...god and then theres the woman....