When your there for ppl..

[sweet26]

Something I don't understand is why it seems like I'm expected to always be there for some ppl and when I need someone to talk with or vent with, they are always busy or got something of a bigger problem and it gets turned around. I don't really like talkin to just anyone about my problems, I try to always handle them myself. Just sometimes I have to talk to someone sometime....ya know?? I like being able to help my friends and such when they have problems and are feeling down but just feel so stupid when I think about how it seems not one of them is there if and when I really need them....I dunno if I said what I wanted to say exactually but I'm sure you understand... Thanx for lettin me vent...

[LiquidEyes]

Fair-weather friends eh?

 

(Those are the sorts of people we should test cosmetic products on.)

[Guest]

I know where you are coming from and it's quite a shit feeling really, when others confide in you when they need you and when you need someone to confide in, they turn away, or don't have the time.

 

It angers me ! Although I must say, I don't really have friends like that - most of them always have time for me. I HAVE had friends like that though. Got rid of em in the end cause it seemed that the majority of the time, it was only themselves they always thought about.

Edited August 6, 2004 by Maria

[Guest Kether]

Seen it enough times from selfish little fuckfaces.

 

Allow them and don't get sucked in by them again.

[Guest Shenlong]

QUOTE (sweet26 @ Aug 6 2004, 13:13)

Something I don't understand is why it seems like I'm expected to always be there for some ppl and when I need someone to talk with or vent with, they are always busy or got something of a bigger problem and it gets turned around. I don't really like talkin to just anyone about my problems, I try to always handle them myself. Just sometimes I have to talk to someone sometime....ya know?? I like being able to help my friends and such when they have problems and are feeling down but just feel so stupid when I think about how it seems not one of them is there if and when I really need them....I dunno if I said what I wanted to say exactually but I'm sure you understand... Thanx for lettin me vent...

nice to see that's how you feel then. just don't bother fucking calling again if that's how you really feel. what a load of fucking shit is all i have to say.

 

can't be fucked with any of this anymore.

[Aaron]

Is this another quarrel, that should be private but is now public!?

[sweet26]

QUOTE (Aaron @ Aug 6 2004, 14:30)

Is this another quarrel, that should be private but is now public!?

No just me ventin something... i'm not bringin my personal problems on here to make a debate about.. as far as I can recall I haven't ever I just find myself with ppl like this and really unsure what to do about them... cos I do care about these ppl very much just don't get the same in return as it seems.... I don't think this is sayin anything about anyone in perticular

Edited August 6, 2004 by sweet26

[Guest Shenlong]

probably, but i really don't care anymore. cya all later at some point, can't be arsed with any of this shit anymore.

[Guest Kether]

QUOTE (Shenlong @ Aug 6 2004, 14:26)

QUOTE (sweet26 @ Aug 6 2004, 13:13) Something I don't understand is why it seems like I'm expected to always be there for some ppl and when I need someone to talk with or vent with, they are always busy or got something of a bigger problem and it gets turned around. I don't really like talkin to just anyone about my problems, I try to always handle them myself. Just sometimes I have to talk to someone sometime....ya know?? I like being able to help my friends and such when they have problems and are feeling down but just feel so stupid when I think about how it seems not one of them is there if and when I really need them....I dunno if I said what I wanted to say exactually but I'm sure you understand... Thanx for lettin me vent...  nice to see that's how you feel then. just don't bother fucking calling again if that's how you really feel. what a load of fucking shit is all i have to say.   can't be fucked with any of this anymore. Didn't you do her up the arse before?

[Aaron]

QUOTE (Shenlong @ Aug 6 2004, 14:33)

probably, but i really don't care anymore. cya all later at some point, can't be arsed with any of this shit anymore.

jeez, another one bites the dust, this place will be a ghost town before long!

[sweet26]

QUOTE (Shenlong @ Aug 6 2004, 14:33)

probably, but i really don't care anymore. cya all later at some point, can't be arsed with any of this shit anymore.

DIDN'T SAY ANYTHING BOUT YOU DID I???? read my quote to Aaron

[LiquidEyes]

QUOTE (sweet26 @ Aug 6 2004, 14:35)

QUOTE (Shenlong @ Aug 6 2004, 14:33) probably, but i really don't care anymore. cya all later at some point, can't be arsed with any of this shit anymore. DIDN'T SAY ANYTHING BOUT YOU DID I???? read my quote to Aaron LOL, er, I think he was joking.   Back to the subject: I was reading an interesting article in one of my girlfriend's "girly" magazines which is quite relevant. It was about women who had improved their lives by becoming more selfish - not in a really bad way, but simply acknowledging that they had been making themselves unhappy by always putting other people first, even to their own detriment.   The upshot is, these people started doing stuff like: * giving less to charity and enjoying more of their own money; * (this is the most poignant example) turning down invitations to socialise with 'half-friends' (i.e. acquaintances you aren't really that bothered about). etc.

[Aaron]

QUOTE (LiquidEyes @ Aug 6 2004, 14:50)

I was reading an interesting article in one of my girlfriend's "girly" magazines

come on tell the truth, it was really your magazine wasnt it...